Mindful Teaching & Learning

Even the most loving parents can unintentionally send mixed messages to their children. In this post, I share two real-life stories from my years in the classroom that reveal how good intentions, like offering choice or celebrating success, can sometimes miss the mark. By listening closely and zooming out, we can better align our intentions with the messages our children actually receive. If you’ve ever second-guessed a parenting decision, this one’s for you.

These are my top 5 phrases to help you become a more effective parent and educator when communicating with young children. Children want to feel seen and heard, and they also crave a sense of agency. By using thoughtful, clear language and reasoning with them, you’ll find that you foster better understanding and cooperation. This approach not only strengthens your relationship but also empowers them to make positive choices and engage more fully in their learning and growth.